The Descent Gets Reviewed!

‘Nathan Burgoine is an author I love. His novels and short stories are among some of my very favourites! Now I love him even more!

He’s been doing a wonderful series of blog posts about short stories. I love short stories and started my writing career with them and still write them today. One of my short stories was included in Nothing Without Us. The Descent features a wizard who is looking for a cure for his multiple sclerosis.

Well, how thrilled am I that Nathan reviewed it! He had amazing things to say:

Whenever I sit down to read a story from Jamieson Wolf, I get ready for the sparkle. There’s a kind of bright joie-de-vivre Wolf brings to his prose that’s infectious and bubbly, and honestly sometimes it’s the perfect balm. So when I got to his tale in Nothing Without Us, I was ready for some of that fictional glitter. And I got it, with a heaping dose of amusingly sarcastic wizard Jefferson on his way to meet with an oracle.

You can read the whole review by clicking here: https://apostrophen.wordpress.com/2020/06/20/short-stories-366169-the-descent-by-jamieson-wolf/?fbclid=IwAR12ij-tc4L0P87kCUPqxvs7dPxjjZcc8NhUzsmRrus6NFT9Ic9-wifFt0A

I’m so glad he loved it! Thank you ‘Nathan, so very much.

You can get your copy of Nothing Without Us, which is an aurora nominate book, by clicking here:

I hope you enjoy The Descent and all the stories in the anthology!

Voting Is Live! – Vote for Love and Lemonade!

Hey everyone! Check it out! The polls are open for the LR Café Best of 2019! My novel Love and Lemonade has been nominated for Best GLBTQ+ Book!

Please go vote for Love and Lemonade here: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/8SR9TNT  

Voting runs from June 13th until Noon on June 18th!

I love this book so much and I would love for it to win. For that, I need your help! Go out there and vote and then tell your friends!

Let’s show Love and Lemonade some love!

Vote here: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/8SR9TNT

Thank you everyone!

A Wish In The Dark – A Poem

I hold on to pain.

that I find on the streets.

It litters the ground,

broken shards of glass,

forgotten matchbooks,

the occasional forgotten book

that has become fat with rain.

I gather these up,

clutch them to my chest.

The shards of glass,

like so many small diamonds,

cut the palms of my hands.

The matchbooks contain memories,

misspent evenings spent in bars,

the darkness unable to hide the joy

or the heady dance of anticipation.

The books contain stories.

After they have dried out,

the pages are rippled like waves.

I run my finger along the lines,

letting it dip into the water

of the stories being told.

I hold on to the pain

that I find on the streets

but I have to let it go.

My home has become filled

with matchbooks, shards of glass,

bloated books filled with stories,

lost shoes that never completed

their lonely journey home,

a lone necklace made of pearls

that have long ago lost their shine.

I gather these things up,

the shards of glass cutting my hands,

and I relish the pain

for one more moment,

a reminder that I am alive,

that I am breathing.

I go outside

and stand underneath the stars.

I make a wish

for each lost item,

and when the wish is done,

I let it go

so that it can float

up to the sky.

When all that is left

are the shards of glass,

I gather all of them up

into the palms of my hands

and blow as if I am

making a wish.

I watch as the glass

joins the stars,

finding empty spots

amongst the darkness.

The sky shines brighter tonight.

I stand underneath the stars

and I let my pain go,

so that it can find the light

within the darkness.

The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes By Suzanne Collins – A Book Review

Coriolanus Snow lives from moment to moment.

Living with his Grandmother and his cousin Tigris. Though they give the impression of grandeur, they are a stone throw away from ruin. However, Coriolanus has been tasked with being a mentor in the tenth Hunger Games. There may be hope for them yet.

There is one mentor per tribute. He is the mentor for the fierce Lucy Gray, a songstress from District 12. Though Coriolanus doesn’t think she will win, he is drawn towards her like a moth towards the flame. Soon, they form an unlikely duo as Coriolanus tries to steer her through the Hunger Games towards the end. He knows that it’s a shot in the dark, but it’s a shot he plans to take.

Things do not go as planned however and Coriolanus’ life takes a drastic turn for the worse and his future looks uncertain. Despite his challenges, Coriolanus isn’t worried.

Snow lands on top…

I’ll admit that when I first heard it was coming out, I pre-ordered it without a second thought. I didn’t even look at the book synopsis. I just knew that it was a new Hunger Games novel and that I wanted to be back in that world again.

One of my friends pointed out that the book was about Coriolanus Snow. Wait a minute, like President Snow? The one and only. I wondered what Suzanne Collins could possibly write that would make me want to read about one of the vilest people in literary history. It would be like reading a book about Voldemort only somehow worse.

However, I was hooked from the first page.

I’m wary of prequels and sequels. For example, I loved Divergent and read that book four times. I could barely get through Insurgent and almost didn’t finish Allegiant. When you look at the Harry Potter franchise, I mean I’ve read those books more times than I can count. The Cursed Child, the supposed eighth story in the cannon, was wonderful because it was nice to be back in the world, but it wasn’t without its problems (I keep thinking of the Trolly Witch).

Thankfully, The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes was the prequel that I didn’t know I needed. Collins skillfully draws us into Snow’s world, into Snow’s life. I couldn’t help but be moved by him and found myself rooting for him. However, Collins has shown us that no character or person is one dimensional. No one in this book is a caricature. The are all living, breathing people.

My only hope is that there are more books about Coriolanus and his rise through Panem which is something I never thought I’d say. I didn’t expect to like and hate a character so much at the same time yet still want to know more about him.

Collins has pulled of one incredible feat with The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes and now I want to go re-read the Hunger Games Trilogy all over again so that I can read The Ballad of Songs and Snakes once more.

Have Sparkle Will Travel – On Coming Out to Myself

I don’t think there was a time that I didn’t know I was gay. I just didn’t have the words to talk about who and what I was.

When I was eight years old, I knew that I was not like other boys around me. I knew that I wasn’t what people considered “normal”. Growing up, I was constantly reminded that it wasn’t okay to be gay. My father would often make derogatory remarks or comments about gay people, about fags and dykes and would rail on what would happen to me I turned out to be one of them. I just pushed myself further into my closet, not wanting my sparkle to show. However, glitter tends to leave a trail.

I remember taking sex education when I was in elementary school and I crawled further into my closet when the teacher told us that sex could happen between only men and woman. That stayed with me for a long time. I think it shaped a lot of the shame that I carried with me along with the sparkle. It was another confirmation that I wasn’t normal, that I didn’t deserve love. If sex could only be between a man and a woman, where did that leave me?

All through high school, I wasn’t popular but I wanted to be. I craved it like every other person who wanted validation from others. Looking back at it, I think I mostly wanted to be accepted for who I was completely, even if I couldn’t put a name or voice to what I was and what was different about me.

Even though I tried to keep the sparkles in the closet and tried so hard at keeping the glitter off of my hands, my natural sparkle would always end up showing. With the benefit of hindsight, I know that I was the last person to fully understand what I was and give voice to it. I was afraid to be gay and terrified to be myself.

There was a point during the end of high school where I tried to slit my wrists, I was so afraid to be gay. It came after my group of friends shunned me. They kept asking me “Don’t you know what you are?” and “How can we be friends with someone like you? I don’t want to catch it.” I took a knife to bed with me that night. I had thought about how I would do it. I couldn’t see myself taking pills. If I was going to do it, I wanted to feel something, anything but the void I felt within me. Though I hacked at my wrists, I couldn’t cut deeply enough, the knife that I used was blunt and not as sharp as I hoped and I didn’t dare find another one and risk being seen. Even now, when I’m writing this, I can still look down at my wrist and see a tiny white scar, a reminder of that time and the fear and self-loathing that filled me.

It would take moving away from everyone I knew to reinvent myself; more, to just be who I was all along. My coming out was certainly unconventional. I was in university and I was sitting with a group of friends. My best friend at the time, Sheenagh, was watching me with knowing eyes. She saw, you know? She could see into you and pull out the words that you were too afraid to utter except in your dreams.

She leaned into me and whispered, “What’s wrong, little Wolf?”

Sheenagh waited patiently for me to answer, the noise around us like a kind of animal music. “I think I’m gay.” I told her quietly.

She let out a soft laugh. “Oh, I don’t think your gay honey. I know you are. Am I the first person you’ve told?”

I nodded and tried to hide my face in shame, but Sheenagh took hold of my chin and pulled my face up so that I was looking at her. “Never be ashamed of who you are, Jamieson. You have to own it. Stand up and shout out loud, let people hear you!”

She stood on one of the cafeteria chairs and shouted “I am a bisexual moose!”

Now, Sheenagh was just one of those people that attracted others. They weren’t afraid to follow her lead. Others stood up on their chairs.

“I am a gay porpoise!” one person shouted.

“I am a lesbian chimpanzee!” One man said.

“I am a bisexual walrus!” said another.

“I am an asexual horse!”

Soon, the cafeteria was filled with people that claimed they were every kind of animal, from gay giraffes to lesbian gazelles. It was a zoo of people that were comfortable enough with their sexual identity to proclaim it to the world. Sheenagh looked down at me from her perch. “Your turn, little Wolf.”

I nodded and stood shakily on my chair. “I am a gay Wolf.” I said quietly in a voice that was almost a whisper.

She shook her head. “You have to shout it.” She said. “You have to own it!”

I nodded and took a breath in. “I AM A GAY WOLF!” I yelled. Everyone around me clapped and Sheengah smiled.

“See, I knew you could do it.”

I called my parents soon after. My mother had the best response. “Oh sweetheart, I’ve always known you were gay. How was class?”

I tried dating a few times and got hurt badly. I hit a downward spiral and couldn’t find my way out. I was young and sexually confused and pulled myself back into my closet. I kept the door open, but it was more comfortable here and denying who I really was and lying to myself were comfortable hairshirts. Though my glitter wanted me to be completely fine with who I was, I dated two other women after coming out of the closet. I tried to tell myself that I was bisexual, that I was attracted to both sexes, but it wasn’t true. I wasn’t being honest with myself and I was not honouring the light within me. I didn’t want to hide anymore, not even a small part of myself. I wanted to be completely me and to shine as brightly as possible. It was what I had been trying to do all along.

I stepped out of the closet for the last time. Looking back at it, the closet looked to small to hold all of me. A journey that had begun when I was as young as eight until I was nineteen was finally over. I looked at the glitter that covered everything and made me shine so brightly. Walking away from it, I knew that it would be a hard journey, but every step would lead me to who I was supposed to be.

However, even if I was comfortable with who I was, it didn’t mean that society was. I remember when gay marriage was legalized in 2005. It honestly felt like something was in the air and that change was coming. I looked out the window and expected the sky to be filled with rainbows. It remained stubbornly blue.

A neighbour across the street called me over. “Hey Danny.” I said. He was pretty backwards in his way of thinking and I never knew what he was going to say when he spoke to me.

“Did you hear?”

“What?”

“Your kind can get married now.” He shook his head.

“My kind?”

“Yeah, you know, fags and fudge packers.”

When he said this, I was reminded strongly of my father. “You mean gay or queer.”

“I don’t know about happy, but you are strange. You must be happy now that they can’t kill you for being what you are.”

This wasn’t the first time that people felt comfortable sharing such a negative world view with me. Around the same time, a co-worker said “I just can’t understand why your mother lets you be gay.”

I looked at him with shock. “I don’t understand what you mean.”

“Well, your mom is Lebanese, right? How can she let you be gay.”

“My mother has always encouraged me to be exactly who I am.” I told him. We drifted apart after that.

A few years ago when I was at work, a co-worker found out I was gay and said “If you came to my country, they would kill you.” Needless to say, we didn’t become best of friends after that.

Three years ago now, when my now husband and I were out to buy wedding rings, we were walking down the street holding hands. Behind us we could hear a man yelling. We didn’t pay him any mind. He could be yelling at any number of people. As he got closer to us though, it became clear that he was yelling at us.

“Hey!” He yelled. “Hey!”

He reached for us and almost pulled our hands apart.

“My son shouldn’t have to see filth like that.” He said. “So unnatural. You shouldn’t do that kind of filth in public!”

To calm him and the situation, we stopped holding hands and walked into a store. It shook me to the core that someone had almost assaulted us for the simple act of holding hands. I think of that moment when we let each other’s hands go, where we felt unsafe because we were doing what everyone else is allowed to do. I remember the look on the shopkeepers face when we walked into her store. “I’m sorry that happened to you.” Her eyes were filled with pity.

I seem to have had a lifelong relationship with sparkles. I often wonder if I am just made of wishes and stardust given shape. When I need to, I sparkle as brightly as I can, if only to ward off negativity. As I look back my journey with my sexuality, I can only think that I’m lucky that I’m here. I’m lucky that I’m still sparkling. I still struggle with self-love and self-compassion, but thankfully, my being gay has nothing to do with that. It’s just trying to undo many years of negative thinking. Thankfully, I have sparkle to spare. I just have to sparkle all the brighter.

I’m proud of myself for being able to live my truth. I love that part of me that shines like a star from within. Have sparkle, will travel and what a journey I’ve been on already. I can hardly wait for the next one.

Happy Pride Month everyone!

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